Yeah.. Right. That sounds soo romantic. 8-|
05
May
Viaţa urbană
Nu-mi părăsesc prim
ul meu blog, şi din moment ce raporturile şi manifestările « poli » de tot felul sunt aşa la modă, îmi păstrez în paralel ambele site-uri. 
Transfer azi aici câteva citate din postările unui profesor al meu, al cărui scriitură îmi place mie mult.
Recomand www.ioncosmovici.blogspot.com
« Infernul cotidian în care ne zbatem nu e suferinţa episodică, greutatea vreunei sarcini (cum e mersul joia la dentist), ci o formă subtilă de ignoranţă. Străbatem zilnic prea multe stări şi situaţii prea diferite, la capătul cărora nu mai putem aprecia cât de mult am suferit (şi ar fi normal să fim lăudaţi) şi cât de mult ne-am făcut doar datoria - de cetăţeni, oameni sau prieteni. Şi când luăm metroul spre casǎ după o călătorie de şapte ani care a durat o zi, suportarea sentimentului cǎ nu ştim pentru ce ar trebui sǎ fim aplaudaţi, chiar dacǎ nimeni nu ar face-o, e de fapt adevăratul eroism. »
«Viaţa urbană şlefuieşte o relaţie mai bine decât o armată de terapeuţi.»
« Mintea noastră devine mai frumoasă pe măsură ce supravieţuim fără a deveni schizofrenici în mijlocul schimbărilor insuportabil de rapide, de o frumuseţe comprimată pe care o regǎsim cu mirare, fiecare, la orele neaşteptate ale cafelelor din centru, care iau locul vechilor banchete filosofice »
« Rapiditatea cu care trecem dintr-o situaţie în alta face cǎ totul pare efemer, dar de fapt trăim azi, într-o zi, cât trăiau alţii într-o viaţă »
(Ion Cosmovici)
28
Apr
It’s oh so quiet shhh
Deci nu mai am muzica aici. Prin urmare, ma mut. Spre zari mai fericite, unde soundtrackul meu intra si codurile HTML chiar functioneaza !! Ma gasiti la http://dianon.blogspot.com
19
Apr
Odă pt. Norton
It has been decided. Pentru a cita cuvintele memorabile ale Uşilor : « the time to hesitate is through » : deci plecăciuni lui Edward Norton, genialul. Numai 39 de ani, numai 20 de filme, prestaţie fabuloasă când joacă pe nebunul-adolescent-malefic-retard in primul lui film, Primal Fear 1996 (Tradus la noi Avocatul Diavolului, alaturi de Richard Geere, pe care Norton il eclipsează total). American History X, apoi Fight Club - no comment la astea, les connaisseurs savent. Ensuite The Score, alături de DeNiro, Keeping the faith - comedia aia draguţă cu el preot şi cu nesuferitul de ben stiller, then 25th H şi The Illusionist. Si aşteptăm (adică noi, Majestatea noastră) The incredible Hulk, care promite multe, mai ales o distribuţie cu multe bunăciuni.
So Bowes, sir Edward.
02
Apr
Why we do what we do
Tony Robbins: Why we do what we do, and how we can do it better
http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/96
Interesting speech on the 6 human needs:
needs of personality:
1. certainty
2. uncertainty and variety - only pleasant surprises
3. significance
4. connection and love
needs of spirit:
5. grow
6. contribute beyond yourself
13
Mar
Artemis
The Hunt goddess, Artemis, is the twin sister of Apollo. She is a savage solitary maiden wandering the woods together with a pack of wolves, gift from the god Pan. She would be vindictive to those trying to approach her, as she herself loved rarely: only Endymion, a handsome shepherd, who, terrified at the perspective of becoming old, asked Zeus to put him to sleep for good. In love with him, Artemis visited him every night, and from their relations, 50 daughters were born.
Women would fear her, because it was known that she punishes by death vanity and conceit, unfaithfulness and disloyalty. Later in history, people would give her positive attributes, as a benefactor goddess, protector of nature, healer and land fertility: Artemis agrothera meant the one who hunts the beasts.
(from Viktor Kernbach, Dictionary of mythology)
29
Feb
nobody loves no one
Messenger is the Devil’s tool :p. The Internet takes out the worst in people. Have you ever been misunderstood online? We live in the Messenger Generation. We lose 97% of communication, which is mainly body language and tone, and fail to understand & feedback properly.
Speed dial. Fast food. Instant message. Sportfuck. brb.
“You promise to love and cherish each other until boredom do you part?” There’s a thin line between sanity and the annoying salesman in you who thinks of strategies all the time. I’m not buying it. My love for you is selfish and it lasts as long as you are a performant instrument for my pleasure. I evaluate you constantly and I compare you with others. You’re nothing but a tool.
« When our ambition is bounded it leads us to perform joyfully. When our ambition is unbounded it leads us to lie, to cheat, to steal, to hurt others, to sacrifice things of real value. When our fears are bounded we’re prudent and cautious, we’re thoughtful. When are fears are unbounded and overblown we’re reckless and work cowardly. (…) Our longings and worries are overblown » (Dan Gilbert video bottom of blog)
I love you Mr. J.L. Hooker
This is the story of a beautiful simple girl trapped between stone buildings, chaos and smoke of the city of Cheekrest. In a town of muddy streets and aggressive people, she keeps her corner of heaven away from the busy streets, dreaming about the wonderful peaceful landscapes of Alaska and the faraway prince-charming stuck on cloud nine in worlds where no man has gone before.
She always had a flaire for pleasure. In simple airy moves she could build a world of beauty, with the taste and sound of delicious hedonic vibrations. Her favourite delight would be a sweet cherry pie and a cup of hot chocolate after a long walk back home through white snowy streets. She had to protect her magic from others, who resented it because of this discrepancy of views that burned their manners and awareness of this world. She would often hear others telling her: « your happiness depresses me » and « your kindness is annoying ». These words would get to her and make her eyes even more wistful every time.
This air of regretful longing followed her wherever she went. And every year, she would make plans to escape, away from Cheekrest, to wonderland, some 7 700 km west. One day, she actually started packing and said her goodbyes to the dark city walls. Her farewell unchained her eventually as she commenced her way on the bright path towards the western sun, that was worthy of her.
1.The first rule of a relationship is – you don’t talk about the relationship.
2.The second rule of a relationship is – you do not talk about the relationship.
3.The third rule of a relationship is – when someone says “stop” or goes limp, the relationship is over.
4.Fourth rule is – only two people to a relationship.
5.Fifth rule – one relationship at a time.
6.Sixth rule – no shirts, no shoes.
7.Seventh rule – relationships go on as long as they have to.
8.And the eighth and final rule – if this is your first relationship, you have to fight.
15
Feb
BEAUTY
Are you addicted to beauty? I admit I look for it, I often discriminate other things to its advantage. I eliminate people according it. And I don’t just mean beauty in aesthetics, but in gestures and lifestyle, in attitude and expression. The hunger for novelty and the hunger for more follow me wherever I go. Superficial treats. It’s because of those days when I would skip school to install camp on the living-room floor, with Coke & pizza and milk & cookies, and stay and watch movies all day on HBO. Films give you an addition to perfection and synthesis. I want absolute beauty and true love right now, this moment, today, as I see you. I cannot wait several hours or days for it. And most important is: don’t you make the wrong move. Don’t say some wrong words, because any small misunderstanding spoils everything, and I’ll go on to the next story.
Of course, long-lasting - never-ending - impossible love still exists. You will never forget the one single person who fills your heart with joy, one that you probably met but had to separate from. Truth is I prefer to keep it ideal, like a haunting ghost of a person that doesn’t exist but whose identity I associate with a name and a face, and some eyes I adore. And that I’ve always run away from, so I can always think about, with an open heart and in a never-ending beautiful story. You know how it is, don’t you? Of course, you meet people that you play with and with whom you have a good time, giving you something to do, in between the moments that you dedicate to your sacred image. No one can trespass this unbreakable shell. It’s beautiful this way. Yet you know that no one can be the one that you have in mind. Not even the person who wears the name and the eyes you think about.
No one can trespass my unbreakable shell. And it’s beautiful in here.
06
Feb
Promiscuity
Promiscuity =
1. confused mixing: confused or indiscriminate mixing (formal)
2. undiscriminating sexual behaviour: behaviour characterized by casual and indiscriminate sexual intercourse, often with many people
“It just happens…”
“What happens?”
“When you grow up, your heart dies.”
“Who cares?”
“I care…”
(The Breakfast Club. 1985)
We might describe our lover as our soul mate yet also understand that he or she is almost certainly not the only one who might be so described. (James J. Dowd)
Never ever join the Beatles !
THE PARADOX OF CHOICE
dianon